The Scenario: You made a date with a female you met online, but she isn't anything like she described.
What to Do: There is nothing bad than being lied to. Regrettably, it does happen with online dating. Quite a lot of the women who lie on dating services feel you like their personality hence much that you won't care what they look like or that they fibbed. If it troubles you, end the date now. The woman will be upset, but just let her know you don't understand dishonesty. Make that the reason for ending the date, not her look. If you still would like to salvage it, have a good time with her. Let lose and enjoy yourself. Just don't ask for a second date at the conclusion of the night.
The Scenario: You pickup your date for a formal meal, but your car breaks down on the way.
What to Do: Being left high and dry with your date may seem like the end of the world, but it isn't. But as a matter of fact, it can work to your benefit. If you have AAA or call a tow truck, you have ample time to get to know her. If the car repair is something you can fix, such as a flat tire, your take-charge line may make an impact on her. Say sorry once for the delay and do so again at the end of the date, but let it go. If you don't make the problem an issue, your date shouldn't make it an issue either.
The Scenario: You or your date gets disturbed when the restaurant messes up your order.
What to Do: First, don't be alarmed or freak out. It is frequent to express anger and frustration when something is wrong, but don't let it ruin your date. If you do not like the dish served to you, ask your waiter for a substitution. When doing so, be cool, do not raise your voice, or play the blame game. Women don't want to date men with bad moods. In the event you find yourself yelling at your waiter, avoid straight away. Issue a heartfelt apology to both the waiter and your date. If you desire to salvage this date, saying sorry is a must.
The Scenario: You take a woman to a bar, but happen to meet your ex-girlfriend.
What to Do: This scenario will not result in catastrophe unless you let it. If you see an ex-girlfriend on your modern date, don't greet her her, but don't refuse her either. If she walks up and says hello, greet her back, but center all of your attention on your hot date. If your date asks who she is, don't lie, but don't disclose too much information. If your date is upset about her attendance, imply a change of scenery.
The above mentioned scenarios are just a few examples in which a good first date can take a bad turn. No matter what difficulty you face, there is always a way to salvage the date if you want. Put a smile on your face and have a positive attitude. She will surely and positively become aware of it.
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